Thursday 13 May 2021

Letter to a Fairly New Grandson.









 


Dear Smallest Grandson,

Such good news!

You arrived in England, coping well with a long drive into Germany and a shorter flight across to London and have stayed on for a holiday. You have met your English Granny, your Uncle and Aunt, your two cousins and even a few of your parents' friends. It has been a very special time for us all, and I think it has been for you, too.

I hope you will have some memories of it because your parents managed to organise such a lovely location for our meeting (and went through all the necessary isolation and testing processes needed for travel). You did it, they did it, we all did it. Even the weather was kind to us.

So you have met us all, not as the baby we've seen on Skype, but as a walking, very aware, fully interactive toddler, full of curiosity and specific interests.

Music! Yes! (A specific musical toy handed on from your cousins which has been used an awful lot.)   Birds! Oh yes! Any birds, large or small, anywhere. Good on water, good on grass, good zooming about overhead, good but a bit frustrating to chase. Food! Usually enjoyable, always interesting at so many levels (literally; on the plate, on the floor, on the face and hands but being manipulated with increasing skill into the mouth). Your Daddy's and Uncle's 40 year-old toys; I'm so glad I have an attic large enough to store the best for you and your cousins. (Well done, Fisher Price.) Textures, especially the giant bear called Ollie Gark, and the sheep-skin rug that your cousins think is a polar bear.


                                       (And you've had a smart London haircut since this photo was taken!)


You enjoy your bed, too. Even an unfamiliar bed in an unfamiliar place. You settle into it at around 7p.m and sleep, peacefully sleep for nearly twelve hours. What a wonderfully calm and happy toddler.

You came, you saw and you certainly conquered, Little One,

With lots of love from Granny.


9 comments:

  1. A lovely visit from a lively young man xx

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  2. Thank you, gz. Small Grandson is fascinated by birds, so it's nice to think there could be a genetic factor he shares with Pohangina Pete. Fortunately my garden is full of birds, mainly harassed parents packing food into their fluttering youngsters - not unlike what happens in my kitchen.

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  3. Wonderful.
    Your response to gz reminds me (again) that we have more in common with others (including other species) than we sometimes remember/admit.

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  4. So happy for you that you finally got to meet your grandson. Such a sweet little boy!
    Also - that's a lovely picture of Springin the park.

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  5. Oh, WONDERFUL! And he sleeps! None of my children seem to have mastered the art of getting their children to sleep early and through the night. I try to advise them but...

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  6. E.C.: thank you. Yes, I think this last year or more has brought an increasing awareness of the natural world just outside the door. I watch these little garden birds becoming more and more scruffy as they are endlessly catering to their infants' needs. Quite soon now the adults will go quietly off to moult and recuperate. Many of us recognise the situation!

    Molly: yes, a toddler worthy of the long wait. The photo of the pigeon-chase was taken in the grounds of Norwich cathedral.

    Pam: It's been an unusual start in life for Small Grandson. He was born just as the pandemic started so was in lock-down in his earliest days. At one point my son was concerned that he would think he was the only baby in the world. His life has expanded since, but a very calm and quiet start will have affected him, hopefully in a positive way.

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  7. I have been wondering how the visit went, and I'm delighted to see what a lovely contented interested child he seems. His parents must work very hard to keep him secure and calm, even if it he is like that naturally. I've been intending and planning to email but somehow I'm finding myself running all the time and never quite arriving. It must be because I'm slowing down and not realising it. Anyway I will write soon! And thank you for the lovely photos.

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  8. You really evoke the life of a small human so well.

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  9. Jenny: many thanks for your comment, and I hope you can stop running for a bit. I couldn't even start!
    The Austrians are returning to their mountain-side home today. I'm so grateful that they were able to come during what I think may be a brief window of opportunity.

    Zhoen: thank you for such a kind comment. Small humans are fascinating, especially when you're a grand-parent, rather than a parent.
    I'm keeping everything possible crossed for you.

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